It’s been a while since I had a male crush Monday. At first, it was because I didn’t want to make this a superficial section by using all celebrities. After that, there was just no one that I felt should be my MCM.

I’ve been single for 3 years and I’ll admit that I am not to trusting of men at the moment. It’s not that I feel all of them are sick, but somehow the ones I come in contact with seem to have a few screws missing.

Now, you may have noticed by now that I don’t have them all either. It’s a horrible trait to ask for things in a mate that you don’t have yourself. Knowing what you want in a relationship means you know what you can offer.

So my MCM today is the list of things I desire in my future husband…

Has a relationship with God

Is ambitious

Is attentive

Is wise and not just educated

Wants children

Is honest

Is faithful

Is goofy (a MUST!)

Is creative

Is romantic

I’m sure that’s not all, but this is a basic list right now. I’ve been told that praying over this list and leaving it to God to handle while I get myself together is the best way to go.

What’s on your list of must-haves in a mate? What are your deal breakers?