I have been somewhat counseling some of my friends. This was completely involuntary on my part. Don’t get me wrong, I love them dearly and will do anything I can, but I often feel very unqualified to give advice. I haven’t experienced a lot of things or even pains that they have in regards to … Continue reading Hurt people heal people.
A few years ago while at a women's empowerment event in Nashville, something one of the speaker's said will never leave me. Whether its a personal relationship or a business relationship, learn the gift of goodbye. I remember thinking of how simple, but powerful the concept was. She went on to point out how most … Continue reading December Rules: Give the gift of Goodbye
Let's face it. We all have highs and lows. That's what recovery is about. It's a process. You never know when something will happen in your life, that you will need to recover from. That's why it's so important that when you are up, or on a 'high', that you don't sit on your pedestal and judge others. Tyrese disguised his judgment and criticism of others as advice. My recovery tip for today is, don't be like Tyrese. Here's how to handle your ups and downs without involving social media.
You're an amazing author. I'm so proud of you." I got that a lot and you know what I thought every time I heard it... "I'm alright...nothing special."
After years and years of not getting what you want, it’s time to let go. But don’t just let go and move on to another failed relationship, be smart and level up.
You’ve been seeing a guy for months, maybe even years. You all aren’t exclusive, but only on paper. You do everything together and it seems like a long term thing, but then it happens: you start arguing, seeing each other less, and eventually you break up. But it's not a break up. You were never in a relationship. Can you still be hurt? Is this still something you need to recover from? Absolutely.
I’ll admit that I enjoy celebrity gossip from time to time. Out of pure boredom, you can find me scrolling through The Shade Room’s timeline to see if any celebrities I like have any personal tea going on. For years, we’ve heard about TIP and Tiny’s relationship, the cheating rumors, the open marriage rumors and … Continue reading The Family Struggle: why I’m so bothered by TIP and Tiny’s separation
"If you aren't taking the time to spiritually develop in your waiting period then don't complain about the duration of your wait!" This was a quote posted on godlydating101 on Instagram. Give me a second to rub my feet after that one.... All of my toes were stepped on with the posting of this meme. … Continue reading I’m waiting in vain
So, I've only been 30 for about a month and I already feel as if I'm failing at it. Now, I haven't lost sight of my goals, however this train to success seems to be moving a lot slower than I'd hoped. I am currently in the process of trying to relocate. I know, if … Continue reading A 30’s life crisis is real
While arguing one day after one of my best friend's wedding, he said something to me that made my blood boil. He made a smart comment about how I didn't know what it meant to be a wife and my friend did, which was why she was now married and I wasn't.