Hurt people heal people.

I have been somewhat counseling some of my friends. This was completely involuntary on my part. Don’t get me wrong, I love them dearly and will do anything I can, but I often feel very unqualified to give advice. I haven’t experienced a lot of things or even pains that they have in regards to … Continue reading Hurt people heal people.

December Rules: Give the gift of Goodbye

A few years ago while at a women's empowerment event in Nashville, something one of the speaker's said will never leave me. Whether its a personal relationship or a business relationship, learn the gift of goodbye. I remember thinking of how simple, but powerful the concept was. She went on to point out how most … Continue reading December Rules: Give the gift of Goodbye

Recovery Tip: Don’t be Tyrese

Let's face it. We all have highs and lows. That's what recovery is about. It's a process. You never know when something will happen in your life, that you will need to recover from. That's why it's so important that when you are up, or on a 'high', that you don't sit on your pedestal and judge others. Tyrese disguised his judgment and criticism of others as advice. My recovery tip for today is, don't be like Tyrese. Here's how to handle your ups and downs without involving social media.

Pursuit of a Ring

After years and years of not getting what you want, it’s time to let go. But don’t just let go and move on to another failed relationship, be smart and level up.

Single-ish: How to recovery from a situationship.

You’ve been seeing a guy for months, maybe even years. You all aren’t exclusive, but only on paper. You do everything together and it seems like a long term thing, but then it happens: you start arguing, seeing each other less, and eventually you break up. But it's not a break up. You were never in a relationship. Can you still be hurt? Is this still something you need to recover from? Absolutely.

The Family Struggle: why I’m so bothered by TIP and Tiny’s separation

I’ll admit that I enjoy celebrity gossip from time to time. Out of pure boredom, you can find me scrolling through The Shade Room’s timeline to see if any celebrities I like have any personal tea going on. For years, we’ve heard about TIP and Tiny’s relationship, the cheating rumors, the open marriage rumors and … Continue reading The Family Struggle: why I’m so bothered by TIP and Tiny’s separation

Why my ex was right about me.

While arguing one day after one of my best friend's wedding, he said something to me that made my blood boil. He made a smart comment about how I didn't know what it meant to be a wife and my friend did, which was why she was now married and I wasn't.