I’ll admit that I enjoy celebrity gossip from time to time. Out of pure boredom, you can find me scrolling through The Shade Room’s timeline to see if any celebrities I like have any personal tea going on. For years, we’ve heard about TIP and Tiny’s relationship, the cheating rumors, the open marriage rumors and … Continue reading The Family Struggle: why I’m so bothered by TIP and Tiny’s separation
Tag: recovery
You messed up…shake it off!
I’ve been putting off going to pick up my new contacts for weeks. They gave me a sample pair, so I figured I could hold off on making that trip for a little while. The last few days, I had forgotten all about my order until the pair I’ve been wearing began to dry out … Continue reading You messed up…shake it off!
I can buy my own roses.
I am a firm believer of giving people their roses while they are alive. If you somehow have no clue what that means, it's simple: show love and gratitude to those you appreciate while they are alive to feel the love. I seriously get frustrated when good people are constantly taking advantage of. Especially those … Continue reading I can buy my own roses.
I’m waiting in vain
"If you aren't taking the time to spiritually develop in your waiting period then don't complain about the duration of your wait!" This was a quote posted on godlydating101 on Instagram. Give me a second to rub my feet after that one.... All of my toes were stepped on with the posting of this meme. … Continue reading I’m waiting in vain
I don’t deserve 500 things.
Now, I’m not saying don’t dream or make goals. Visualizing your goals is what should motivate you. Why do you think vision board parties have become so popular? Put that thing in your face long enough and you’ll figure out a way to get it. But I cannot sit and say, “Oh, I wish God would bless me with a nice figure,” while I’m sitting in my bed eating pasta and breadsticks.
Find your happy
Bad news travels faster than good news. It’s a proven fact. You’ll hear about a dirty restaurant with dry food before you hear about a five-star restaurant with delicious meals. Why do we do that? Why are we so quick to share the negative? Society has made it so easy for us to do this. … Continue reading Find your happy
Hating won’t make you great.
Have you ever gotten low key upset at ANOTHER engagement announcement on your social media? It could be your cousin or closest friend and while your commenting about how excited you are…a little piece of your heart is breaking? No…just me? Okay. Y’all lying….but it’s okay. Don’t start judging me like I’m not happy for … Continue reading Hating won’t make you great.
A 30’s life crisis is real
So, I've only been 30 for about a month and I already feel as if I'm failing at it. Now, I haven't lost sight of my goals, however this train to success seems to be moving a lot slower than I'd hoped. I am currently in the process of trying to relocate. I know, if … Continue reading A 30’s life crisis is real
Why my ex was right about me.
While arguing one day after one of my best friend's wedding, he said something to me that made my blood boil. He made a smart comment about how I didn't know what it meant to be a wife and my friend did, which was why she was now married and I wasn't.
Nobody respects a quitter.
Being inconsistent sucks. Because I can’t think of anything worse right now than starting over. Starting over with my financial recovery. Starting over with my clean eating. Starting over with exercising. Starting over in my celibacy journey. But truth is, I’ve stopped each of these things more than I’ve started them. Each time I slip, … Continue reading Nobody respects a quitter.
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